Getting Honest Feedback from ChatGPT

Learning Objectives

• Write clear prompts that encourage honest responses from ChatGPT
• Identify and avoid common mistakes that lead to biased AI feedback
• Handle inconsistent responses by refining your questioning approach

Introduction

Getting honest feedback from ChatGPT requires the right approach. Many users receive generic or unhelpful responses because they don't know how to ask the right questions. This chapter shows you practical techniques for crafting prompts that encourage ChatGPT to give you direct, useful feedback instead of polite but vague answers.

Lessons

Lesson 1: Why ChatGPT Gives Vague Responses

ChatGPT is designed to be helpful and agreeable, which can work against you when you need honest critique. The AI tends to:

• Give balanced responses that avoid strong opinions
• Focus on positive aspects to be encouraging
• Provide generic advice rather than specific criticism

Understanding this tendency helps you craft better prompts that push past the politeness barrier.

Lesson 2: Writing Prompts for Honest Feedback

Here's how to write prompts that encourage direct responses:

Be specific about what you want critiqued:

• Instead of: "What do you think of my business plan?"
• Try: "What are the three biggest weaknesses in my financial projections?"

Ask for problems explicitly:

• "What could go wrong with this approach?"
• "What am I missing here?"
• "Where are the weak points in this argument?"

Request multiple perspectives:

• "Give me three reasons why this might fail"
• "What would a critic say about this idea?"
• "How would my competitors attack this strategy?"

Lesson 3: Advanced Techniques for Better Feedback

Use role-playing prompts:
"Act as a harsh but fair editor. Review this blog post and tell me exactly what needs fixing."

Set expectations upfront:
"I need brutal honesty, not encouragement. What are the real problems with this proposal?"

Ask for rankings and comparisons:
"Rank these five ideas from strongest to weakest and explain why."

Request specific examples:
"Don't just say 'improve clarity' – show me exactly which sentences are confusing and why."

Lesson 4: Handling Inconsistent Responses

When ChatGPT gives you inconsistent feedback:

1. Check your prompt clarity – Vague questions get vague answers
2. Provide more context – Give ChatGPT the full picture
3. Ask follow-up questions – "You said X earlier, but now you're saying Y. Which is more accurate?"
4. Test different phrasings – Try asking the same question in different ways

Practice

Try these three prompts with a piece of your own work:

1. "What are the three biggest problems with [your work]? Be specific about what's wrong and how it impacts the reader."

2. "Act as someone who disagrees with this completely. What would they say to tear this apart?"

3. "If you had to cut this in half, what would you remove first and why?"

Compare the responses you get with these direct prompts versus a general "what do you think?" question.

FAQs

How do I know if ChatGPT is being honest or just telling me what I want to hear?
Look for specific, actionable criticism rather than generic praise. Honest feedback usually includes concrete examples and clear explanations of problems.

What if ChatGPT refuses to give negative feedback?
Rephrase your request as seeking "areas for improvement" or "potential challenges" rather than asking for criticism directly.

Should I argue with ChatGPT if I disagree with its feedback?
Yes, engaging in back-and-forth discussion often leads to more nuanced and useful insights. Ask ChatGPT to explain its reasoning or consider alternative viewpoints.

Jargon Buster

Prompt – The instruction or question you give to ChatGPT to get a response

Role-playing prompt – Asking ChatGPT to act as a specific type of person or professional when giving feedback

Follow-up question – Additional questions that build on ChatGPT's previous response to get more detail or clarification

Wrap-up

Getting honest feedback from ChatGPT is about asking the right questions in the right way. Focus on being specific about what you want critiqued, explicitly ask for problems and weaknesses, and don't be afraid to push back when responses feel too generic. The more direct your prompts, the more useful your feedback will be.

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